Dear Academy Awards: Tell Us the Reason

I try my best to keep my anger at bay at things which I don't have any control over or which don't affect me directly.  It became a point of mine as I realized I'm getting older and that stress shows up on your face in wrinkles and whatnot.  Regardless of how well you know me...you do know one thing for sure and that is that I'm vain as hell.  If getting mad at ish ages me then I'm going to flit around this mofo like a Disney bird twittering and ish.  So I tend to STOP AND BREATHE more and more.  I do have family, framily and friends I vent to...but for the most part we discuss and let it go.  I also just put it out there on Facebook by posting an article and commenting on it and then just read the comments to see if anyone else feels the same or...whether it's just me.

When the Academy Awards nominations were announced, I wasn't surprised at the lack of diversity.  I doubt anyone was.  I know some expressed shock and awe but honestly...they weren't shocked either.  Everyone knows it's a game of politics and political players tend to look the same in most of the top arenas where politics are active players.

Question: How Do You Become a Member of the Academy?

Answer: Membership in the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences is by invitation only. The Academy sends out invitations to a very limited number of qualified members of the film community once a year. Membership in the Academy normally fluctuates between 6,000 and 6,500 voting members.

Candidates for membership are proposed by current Academy members and then voted on by committees consisting of prominent representatives of the Academy’s 14 branches - directors, screenwriters, documentary filmmakers, etc. A candidate normally has the backing of at least two members of the branch for which he/she may qualify. Candidates must receive an endorsement by the appropriate branch executive committee before their name is given to the Board of Governors for its approval.

The Academy has tightened their entrance standards, with only the most impressive candidates invited to join the distinguished group. Academy Award nominees, if not already members, are automatically considered for membership (but not guaranteed an invitation to join).

The majority of the members are from the United States of America, however membership is not limited to U.S. citizens. Members remain eligible to vote until they have passed on or opted for retired (non-voting) status.
— http://movies.about.com/od/awards/f/oscarmem122504.htm

White.

Male.

I thought about the studio films which had a solid cast of Black actors in them this past year:

1.  Selma - Loved it.

2.  Addicted - Just watched it the other day and couldn't finish.  The menZ were pretty though.

3.  No Good Deed - Never finished it.  Probably won't even though I LURVES Taraji.

4.  Repentance  - Will watch this week.

5.  A Haunted House 2 - *BLINK*

6.  The Single Moms Club - No plans to watch.

7.  Get On Up - Really enjoyed it.

8.  The Equalizer - (On the fence about including this one since Denzel was the only Black person.)  Enjoyed it...wasn't Mr. Washington's best but not his fault.

9.  About Last Night - TRULY enjoyed it!

10.  Think Like a Man Too - TRULY enjoyed it!

11.  Belle - LOVED it...knew it wouldn't attract many though.

12.  Ride Along - I love Kevin Hart so yeah...TRULY enjoyed it!

13.  Annie - Didn't watch it and kinda feel really bad that I didn't so I'll rent it soon.

14.  Top Five - BEST.MOVIE.EVER!!!!!!!!!!  I LOVED THIS MOVIE SO MUCH AND TOLD EVERYONE I KNEW TO GO SEE IT!  LOVED IT!

15.  Beyond the Lights - TRULY enjoyed it.  

16.  Dear White People - #StillMad

I got annoyed last night and a friend asked me if I truly felt that "Selma" should have won best picture.  

Me:  Have you ever seen "Malcolm X" or "The Color Purple?"

Friend:  No.

Me:  Did you see "Selma?"

Friend:  No.

Me:  Why?  

Friend:  Well, I don't support Spike Lee because I think he's a racist and I'd never even heard of "The Color Purple" before I met you because I know that's one of your favorite movies.

Me:  And "Selma?"

Friend:  I meant to go over the holidays but the time just got away from me and with kids it seems I only get to go see kid movies anyway.

Me:  Fair enough....have you ever seen a Woody Allen film?

Friend:  Of course.

My response was pretty much the following:

Well you'll understand that I understand that "Selma" meant something completely different to me than it did for you.  Emotionally there was a connect that many don't have and not just with White people.  I know a LOT of 20 and 30something Black people who didn't see it and well...I can't say it was something a teenager would choose to go see if their parents or school didn't take them...so I get that nothing is required viewing.  But "Malcolm X" is one of the most amazing films of our time.  You should get over your thoughts on Spike Lee and watch it one day same as I got over my distaste of the man Woody Allen is because I understand watching his movies is like an alternative film class with a perspective I'd never have.  Living in his world would be a fantasy for me and the closest I'll ever get to it is by watching his movies and watching how it is to exist without many of the worries most of us have.  Being able to do and say exactly as you wish at all times is something afforded to the few.

The conversation continued and, this morning, I've had similar conversations with friends, Black and White.  And one Asian woman.  

My thoughts on the Oscars get me angry far before nominations.  It's way back up in the deep...when producers think about what's next on their agenda.  What kind of movie do they want to make next.  Who is going to be the next star?  Who will they touch and change their life.  It goes back to how I felt here:

Black Filmmaking:  The Elephants in the Room...

The recent success of television shows with Black people in them have finally given me hope that the money rolling in will make Hollywood HAVE to factor in diversity in such a way that there will be room for more than one at a time.  You know how it goes...in Black Hollywood there can't be more than one it someone in a certain position at a time.  We get one it television show runner, one it director, one it actor, one it comedian.  LOL!  One at a time please!  No pushing!  No shoving!  Form ONE line!  WE'RE GOING TO USE THIS ACTOR IS 14 MOVIES this year because we only allow one at a time!  Yall know the drill!  Slow your roll!

So yeah...I'm hoping it gets better but you'll understand if I'm cynical as fuck about it cuz yeah...

Anyway...I'm happy "Birdman" won so big and I'm over-the-moon about Common and John Legend's win.  They are young Harry Belafonte's to me and I love them so.  They are not afraid to speak what needs to be spoken to the masses things which benefit ALL and not just them.  They made/make me proud.  

I got so annoyed at how many Black actors were onstage handing OUT the awards.  LOL!  I mean...that ish got to be comical.  One of my FB friends said it was the Oscar's version of "The Help."  

I didn't care for some of the nonchalant lack of Black people jokes either.  Like when Jerry Seinfeld said that they really never did much with Black women during his bit on the SNL anniversary show and then kept it moving.  Like...yeah...so?  LOL!  I mean damn!  

Just wow.

Anywho.  Again...proud of and glad for Common and John Legend and their entire teams behind them.  Keep raising those bars and keep 'em talking and crying.  Every little bit helps if it gets into the minds of those with the power to make diversity in films really happen.  

Me, myself and I personally?  (I hate that expression and am just using it to make someone laugh.)  I'm going to re-watch "What's Love Got to Do With It" again.  Anna Mae and Ike were ROBBED!

Thoughts?

Double Ruffle Capris and Pants...NO

I just got a new catalog in the mail that I've never heard of.  Kelly's Kids.  Flipping through I was smiling at the coordinating outfits the kids were wearing in group picture and then I ran across something that I didn't even know the name of but that I knew I despised on little girls:

Double ruffle capris and pants.  I see this so often down South that I've stopped being astonished when I see cute little girls dressed like clowns but I do wonder...WHY?

Please...if you have an adorable, smart, fun and funny little girl...don't dress her like a clown.  She's going to start hating you when she's old enough to look at pictures and realized YOU DID THAT TO HER!!!!!!!!!!

Love you!  Mean it!

Empire Questions

Good morning!!!!!  I'm re-watching The Cookie Show.  I feel like I mighta, coulda missed something so yeah...re-watching just in case.  I'm still shook behind that ending and the preview of next week's episode though.  #StillShook  

And yall...just betwix me and you...Andre do crazy too well for me.  If I met him in real life I'd smile and wave from a distance.  Keeping it moving.  LOL!

 

1.  Do yall think Lucious is going to leave Ughmo and get back with Cookie?

2.  Is it wrong for them to do what they did?  He's engaged!  But they never stopped loving each other right?  

3.  How do you feel about Ughmo (Anika) now that she didn't burst up in there swanging on folks?  Think she really loves Lucious?  Or does she really love Empire?

4.  Yall think Andre is going to swing on Vernon for not telling him about his daddy?

5.  #TeamCookie or #TeamAnika?

BONUS QUESTION...

#TeamAmber or #TeamKhloe? <-----------BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

Empire Recap: The Cookie Show...COOOOOOOKKKKKIIIIEEEEEEEEE!

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The Cookie Show is on!  I need Cookie's skirt.  

So they made Jamal marry Olivia?

Lucious not doing well.  I like how they are making everything he's listening to sound "hollow."

Cookie looks tired but watch how she pulls it out of Lucious...

OH SHIT!  MAN DOWN!  MAN DOWN!

Lord...Lucious you'd better pick right!

Pretty boy doesn't have what it takes to be with Jamal.  Watch he shows up pregnant.  

Wait...

What is wifey-poo up to?  

Lucious so smooth with it though.

Bae?  What is Bae?

BaconAndEggs.

A Hakeem necklace?  Lil boy please.

Wait...Naomi...after you take off that dress and give it to me...don't fall for that Hakeem mess.

Them Russians will mess you up man.

POISON!

Lucious running ish from bed with wires running everywitcha way.  LOL!

Cookie running up on us with fly animal prints again.  That dress is hot!  Gimme that dress Cookie!  And that ring.  And them shoes.  Specially them shoes.

Lucious showing up looking like he just ate a ribeye and some bacon wrapped asparagus.

And a rich and delicious bordeaux wine.

Is Precious trying to make it with Malcolm?  They don't know that's gonna be Cookie's man?

OH.SHIT!  OLIVIA DONE PULLED A PLOP, DROP AND ROLL THE HELL OUT ON 'EM!

Cookie get mad quick. I wonder what they would have been like had she never been arrested?  Jamal got a new car?

Uh oh!  Yall see the Porsha stunting today?  

Did Courtney just bomb on CP time?  BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!  

Wait...this isn't bad.  Get it Elle/Courtney!

Robby keeps talking while I'm watching and I swear fo' goodness he's going to get put off this sofa!

Lucious is wrong for what he's doing to Jamal.  I bet he paid Michael off.  Fat check.  Michael in France now.  Um...just take a paternity test please.  Olivia ghost.

That's kinda hot performing as people arrive.  They look cold as hell.  LOL!  Check out Elle royalty baby!  If Boo Boo Kitty was smart she'd get in good with Cookie.  But Cookie probably wouldn't have it.

Lawd...Lucious don't fall out at the event.

Elle is going to do well.  I hope.  I hope nobody slips her a pill or a drink or some blow or some weed or some of anything that would tip her over the edge.  Boo Boo might do it.

THAT BOO BOO BIOTCH!  

I don't even know what else to say right now!  I'm so pissed!  Why would she do that to Elle?  That's going to flipping tank their show!  So horrid!  WHO DOES THAT?  Boo Boo ain't shit.  I now wish nothing good for that heffa.  I want Cookie to cut her azz.  Not lightweight either.  Like...deep and let her azz bleed out.  UGH!  

Lucious don't fall okay?

BECKY!  GET LUCIOUS!    LAWD!  A BILLION DOLLARS IN THAT ELEVATOR!  I MEAN ROOM!

COOKIE GO DO IT!  SAVE THE FAMILY!  FUG YOU ANIKA!  YOU WRONG!  DEAD DAMN WRONG!

Anika's haircut isn't even right.  All rounded in the back.  UGH.  Old Ughmo!  That's her name to me now...Ughmo.

Cookie got this!  Shut up Ughmo!  Cookie got this!

Handling family business.  Oh yeah.  Ughmo is going to have major insecure beef.  Cookie did that.  Ughmo mad as shit!  YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!

Double-breasted coat looks good on Lucious!  The back of Ughmos's head is flat.  I dot like her.  

I want them back together.  He loves her.  LOVES HER!  Cookie that is.

They are being really good to the baby girl though.  The entire family.  I like that.

Yall know Andre crazy right?  Like...for real crazy.  He will snap and lay them all out.  That boy got trouble tremors.  

Prince of Zamunda's design in his head is giving me 90's fever.

Told yall Andre is gone.  His wife is 'bout the right kinda crazy response for him.  This dude.  If Robby did that I'd be calling 911 and tell them to bring the straight jackets.  

Cookie and Lucious.  But not in Ughmo's house.  No.  I don't like seeing them there sipping cognac.

Awwwwww...Cookie!  

Wait...yall get outta Ughmo's house.  UGH!  That's just ew ew kitty.

HOLY SHIT!  HOLY SHIT!  HOLY SHIT!  HOLY SHIT! HOLY SHIT!  HOLY SHIT!  NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!  HOLY SHIT!

I just realized I was holding my breath.  Lawd jeevus.  I can breathe again.

@TastingRoomCom Wine Tasting at Home!

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But I didn't follow through researching the different wine clubs even though it was constantly on my daily to-do list.

Then I read about Tasting Room and thought...Hmmmmmmm...that sounds cool!

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So I ordered the tasting kit so that Robby and I could do our tasting profile and we plan on doing it tonight.  After we taste each wine we answer some questions about the wine.  They then create a taste profile for us and send us a case of wine every three months for $149.99 based on what we like.

Cool!  Wine tasting at home!  I'm down!

I was skeptical about signing up because I was thinking that they'd get a surplus of crappy wines and send that out and I'd still have to pay.  Turns out, I can cancel at any time so I'm good.