I can't tell you enough how to not worry about people who aren't worth worrying about. Every second you spend on them is taking away from you being the light you need to be.
FUCK.
THEM.
Do you.
And smile because you're genuinely happy. If you're not happy...don't smile. That fake ish is for the birds. Tweet...tweet!
You and your fiance have dated for 6 years.
He has a group of boys.
They get together pretty regularly and get pissy drunk.
Since you're planning a wedding, etc. your fiance goes out with them much less. (Not every.single.weekend anymore.)
They hold and intervention with him and tell him that you're not good for him and he shouldn't marry you because you're a fun killer.
He stops doing stuff with them and you ask why and he tells you.
How do you handle?
Your friend is single and dating.
Dating is tough these days.
But she goes out with a lot of guys.
You're having a dinner party and inviting a lot of couples.
You don't invite her.
She finds out and is hurt.
You tell her it's because she always brings one of the guys she's dating and that they are all, well, losers.
Yall fight but it ends up that you invite her to the party.
She brings a date.
Dude is handsome, charming, funny and plays the piano well.
Later you find out that the dude is a paid escort she hired to come with her and be charming and awesome.
You good?
You're dating a struggling artist.
He's a painter.
Yall live together.
You come home early one day and he's there cheating on you.
You flip the hell out and destroy one of his paintings.
In the aftermath of the breakup / fall out...he tells you that you owe him $12,000 for the destroyed painting.
How do you handle?
You didn't have a relationship with your father.
You've learned from other people in your family that he treated your mother very badly before he left yall.
Your mother has never said a bad word about him simply saying that they couldn't work it out.
You've since met him and decided that you dodged a bullet by home not being involved in your life growing up.
You are now in your 40's.
You have a family, a good career and you're happy.
If you found out today that you had a half sibling...would it be important to you to get to know them?
