You meet a guy.
Over the course of several months, you date pretty regularly.
He's always respectful, is a great conversationalist, is smart, fun and funny.
You like him.
After about the 9th date...you are feeling some kinda way because he hasn't kissed you yet.
Sure...he hugs you and kisses you on the cheek...but no real kiss.
He holds your hand, has no problem with and seems to enjoy being close to you...but yeah...no kiss.
You've decided that maybe he's just being respectful, which impresses you.
Next date...YOU kiss HIM.
But then...he calls less and you look up and realize you haven't seen him in a month of Sundays.
What would you do?