Summer Vacation 2019

We like to do something every summer. We do the beach thing with family but we like to do something on our own too with just our nephew because we enjoy exposing him to epicness. LOL! This summer, I am dealing with hot flashes for the first time and it’s not fun. My nephew wanted to go camping for some odd reason and The Robinator wanted to get me somewhere with cooler temps because BAAAAAAABY…this heat will scorch skin.

So we went to Montana and yall…I now want to go every.single.summer. Hell…I want a house out there. I want to spend all summers there and never be this dang hot again. Highs in the 70’s, lows in the 40’s and 50’s, water, trees, flowers, just absolute beauty!!!!!!!!! I LOVED IT SO MUCH! It was exactly what I needed to recharge and regroup. Sure…we had to return to the heat, but a solid week there with all that loveliness was enough to remind us how blessed we are. We watched zero television, read books, played games and hiked daily. We went to the rodeo, did some rock hunting in a river, took a couple of boat rides, lazed around in a hammock and grilled, waded in a river, relaxed, watched the fireworks from a rooftop deck of sorts laying on chaise loungers wrapped in sherpa blankets, ate great food, drank exceptional wine, watched a 4th of July parade and enjoyed life and love.

So yeah…pretty much exactly what we needed.

The only thing bad about this trip was how much we missed the puppies while we were gone. And, of course, the fact that it was still hot as hell when we returned home. LOL!

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So…I said all that to say, try to make it somewhere cool this summer or next if you live in this oppressive heat. It’s so worth it. Hell…I now want a summer house there. Why just summer you ask? Snow man…snow. Ain’t nobody got time for that.

I’d like to give a sarcastic shoutout to Academy for their outdoor convertible pants. They are awesome. Well…at least the men’s version is which is what I decided to buy. They are roomy and comfy with lots of pockets. The women’s version of them are pretty much useless compared to the men’s. Even the kid’s were better with pockets and fit in my humble opinion. Women like functional and comfort too!!!!!!!! Humph.

Where did you go for summer vacation this year?

Material Life Shop in New Orleans

A while ago I read this article on Apartment Therapy:  A Collector's Maximalist New Orleans Home  

Do you see her home?????????  It is sooooooooo gorgeous!  I noticed in the article that she has a shop in New Orleans called Material Life Shop so I went stalked her Instagram feed:  Material_Life_Shop

Everytime since, whenever I was in the city, it was either on a day she wasn't open or she'd already closed for the day.  Today was my lucky day!!!!!!!

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The owner, Carla Williams, had the most magnificent energy!  Her shop / gallery is filled with amazing artefacts, art, books, photography, pottery, etc. from Black life.  And when I say the pieces she's curated are amazing?????? THEY ARE AMAZING!!!!!!!  I walked up and down because I didn't want to miss a thing.  AND...if you ask her about a piece?  SHE TELLS YOU THE MOST FASCINATING STORIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Just shares with you things you knew nothing about and now?  You want to know everything about!

Take these two pieces I brought home with me:

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They were both created by The Black Potter, Mr. Jim McDowell.  The first one is an ugly face jug and the second one is a whiskey mug.  LOL!  

The jugs were used to mark the graves of slaves and the ugly face was so that it scared away the devil.  Interesting right?  I just thought they were cool.  I'm totally looking forward to visiting this store often so that I can integrate some meaningful art into our home.  

Next time you're in New Orleans, you should go check it out.  Tell her I sent you so I can stay on her good side.  Yall know I have an inquisitive nature so I want to ask her a whole lot of questions whenever I'm there.  LOL!  

Oh...and use the address on her Instagram page.  If you just ask Mr. Google...he doesn't have the new address updated yet.  Yeah...we went to the old location first but we were determined to find it today!

Check this out:  http://www.pbs.org/video/history-detectives-face-jug/

The Great Inflatable Race New Orleans!

I like obstacle courses.  But I don't like mud or getting wet without being able to dry off immediately.  Or icky germy stuff. We heard about this 5K obstacle course and decided it sounded super fun.  And guess what?  IT WAS!!!!!!!  

If this comes to your area, you should totally to it!

Reign Supreme

Ran across this in my memories from 8 years ago over on my old blog and it was relevant to a friend so I sent it to her.  If you need to read it, I hope it helps you too!

Facebook Status of "friend:" 

_____ is trying to learn how to put herself first. Any tips?

She received a few good comments that made me smile knowing she has some good people on her friend list:

1.  Take a mandatory 1 hour a day doing what you want to do (eat ice cream, catch up on your fav magazine or go get a mani/pedi).

2.  LOL Kelli...not only knowing but USING the word "no" is the first step

Not feeling guilty about using it is the second

Not needing to use it anymore is the third

3.  Make a list of everything you want to do and just do it! No apologies, no excuses, no guilt! Once you get used to putting yourself first, you won't go back!

My response was simple.  To the casual observer...the simplicity may seem flippant but it's oh-so-true.

JUST DO IT.

Period.

I don't understand this idea that anyone should be better taken care of than you by you.  I mean yes...I understand the concept of putting your children first and why so that's a given but even as a parent...you need to find that space to be solid with you cuz without it...you won't be solid enough for others.

IN MY OPINION.

In Monnie-land I reign Queen Supreme.  I've built a life for myself that allowed me to take the time I needed for me and it gives me what I need to nourish those I love.  If I didn't have the kind of time to and for myself now things would get hectic but trust me when I say the last person that would be neglected would be me.  When I'm dealing with something I hear the following often:  "We don't see or hear from you anymore."

My answer to that? 

I was giving me the time and attention I needed.  I have a little extra time and attention to spread around now so what's up?

Cuz that's how I roll.  I come before all others.  I nurture myself before I even THINK about someone else.  Might sound selfish or it just might be the building block missing in a lot of folks' stairway to happy-ness.

Reign Supreme in your life.  Take the time you need to be all you desire to be.

Love you...mean it,

Monica Mingo

P.S.  Do YOU reign supreme in YOUR life?

Billy Balls and Blue Thistle...Quick and Easy Arrangement!

When I can find billy balls and thistle, I make 4 of these little arrangements to put throughout the house for a pop of color that lasts and lasts and lasts.  I'm talking a solid month or more if you remember to not let the water get icky.

I love to put them in the guest bedroom and bathroom and then...forget about them.  LOL!  I love the personal touch that flowers on the nightstand adds to the welcome level your guests should feel and this is super cute with a nice little pop of color.  Wrap a bit of kitchen twine around the neck and VOILA!  You're doing big things with minimal effort.