Dating and the Separated Spouse
What's your personal stance on dating someone who is for real, legally separated AFTER the period they had to wait before they could officially file for divorce? Like...years after.
Have your beliefs on this changed? Did you ever feel differently than you do now? If you were for real dating someone and then found out they weren't divorced yet...would it change your mind about the person?
Dating Scenario
You're dating a struggling artist.
He's a painter.
Yall live together.
You come home early one day and he's there cheating on you.
You flip the hell out and destroy one of his paintings.
In the aftermath of the breakup / fall out...he tells you that you owe him $12,000 for the destroyed painting.
How do you handle?
Dating Scenario
You meet a guy.
Over the course of several months, you date pretty regularly.
Nice dates.
Nice restaurants.
Nice events.
Nice.
He's always respectful, is a great conversationalist, is smart, fun and funny.
You like him.
After about the 9th date...you are feeling some kinda way because he hasn't kissed you yet.
Sure...he hugs you and kisses you on the cheek...but no real kiss.
He holds your hand, has no problem with and seems to enjoy being close to you...but yeah...no kiss.
You've decided that maybe he's just being respectful, which impresses you.
Next date...YOU kiss HIM.
It's nice.
But then...he calls less and you look up and realize you haven't seen him in a month of Sundays.
You good?
Thoughts?
What would you do?
From TV: Would YOU Date Him?
NOTE: I really need to stop watching old sitcoms and get some work done. UGH!
You meet a guy online.
He's smart, successful and funny.
You agree to meet him for lunch.
He's handsome, a gentleman, funny and has excellent conversation.
You really dig this guy.
You're at his house for the first time and you find yourself snooping around.
You find a girdle.
Turns out...it's his.
Because he has unnaturally big hips and butt for a man.
You good?
Is it hypocritical if you aren't seeing as though women wear support garments regularly?