Going, Going, Gone...Gray

I have been going gray for a minute now and I stomped all up and down declaring that I was just going to let it go until it is all the way gray and be a gray head rockstar looking all super sleek and whatnot.

I saw myself looking like this:

Just all one-dimensional amazing with some banging natural silvery highlights.

All regal and what not ya know? QUEENLY! I planned on wearing a lot of purple. Rich silks with like...some braiding on it or something. I'm talking straight up Egyptian royalty in the house! (Great...now I can't get "Egyptian Lover out my head...UGH!"

Yall...I was ready to wake up already LIT!

The reality of it, however? It's gon' take a minute and I am struggling so much so that I think I'm going to have to do some temporary stuff in the middle of it all so I don't walk around here looking like someone without mirrors in her home.

This is my hair air dried and without heat or moisturizer on it to give it some semblance of a cohesive color and tame it. This is my natural hair color and I am convinced God doesn't want me to live like this anymore. Whenever He looks my way He probably shakes his head and says..."Oh no, baby...what is you doing? I have given chemists the ability to create hair color so that you can handle that situation! WHY DON'T YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY???????"

I've tried everything to keep it contained. I even had box braids for three weeks (I couldn't get used to all that hair and I promise my neck was tired holding up that hair.) and after seeing my little cousin with Dutch Goddess braids, I even did a version of it on my own using braid hair and French braids (cuz I can't do them dang opposite braids to save my life) and they were okay but only last a good week for me because my exposed hair starts looking too fuzzy.

And it totally doesn't help that this guy I'm married to looks all distinguished gentleman and whatnot rocking his gray. (So unfair and honestly...just rude...)

I'd like to find something between the two different braid styles using braid hair to keep it under wraps until more of the gray transition has happened. Something that covers more of my hair but doesn't have to use so much braid hair. I'm serious...I had for real, serious neck pain with all that hair and I got sick of wiping oatmeal off strands every.single.morning. That's just gross. I wish I could have kept them in longer though.

So I'm back to considering color but don't know where to start. My funky red/brown/gray color is just odd as heck to me. My hair is low-porosity so by the very definition it's more difficult to color and it's as healthy as relaxed hair can be and I don't want to sustain any damage with keeping color on longer during the coloring process. Oh...and those temporary colors just slide off onto my pillowcase anyway so...

*sigh*

If anyone has any tips...holla atcha girl. I'm desperate.

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I Got Time Today

It's Wednesday.

Sunday was a few days ago.

People are still proud, mad and processing.

This morning, my first call was from someone who is dealing with a co-worker who said some inappropriate ish during a meeting yesterday about the protest about inequality and continued racism in the United States of America. The person thought they'd handled it but this morning the person gets to their office and the co-worker has left them some printouts of articles supporting the co-worker's misinformed stance on the NFL protestors who took a knee to protest inequality and continued racism in the United States of America.

The person who called me is ready to grab somebody by the collar and drag them down the hall to the parking lot and deliver an Ice Cube from Boyz-N-The-Hood stomp out.

Yesterday, I got a call from someone whose day started in a cab with a driver from another country who opened the conversation with talking about how disrespectful the protestors were. They corrected what the cab driver wanted to believe the protest was about and then put their earbuds in and checked out of the ride. Then, they got to their office and a co-worker who was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay below them on the food chain ladder asked if the person watched any football this past weekend since a lot of people were boycotting. The person didn't have time on Tuesday and attempted to send the co-worker on their way after correcting what the co-worker thought the protest inequality and continued racism in the United States of America was about. The co-worker tried to slide in the last word about how when you're at work you should do your job and use your time before and after work to protest.

OH...BUT YOU AT WORK, IN MY FACE, TALKING ABOUT IT INSTEAD OF DOING YOUR DAMN JOB!

Another person I know walked into their office and straight up made the announcement that conversation regarding the protests about inequality and continued racism in the United States of America was not something they were going to discuss. WITH ANYONE.

The NFL protestor I know has been receiving emails and messages from people, IN PRIVATE, in support of his protest against inequality and continued racism in the United States of America. I just think that is so odd and cowardly, ya know? You understand, you want to help, but you don't want anyone you know to know that you understand and want to help.

You're going to remain quiet about it in public.

Oh.

Excuse me if I don't feel the sincerity.

Excuse me if I call bullshit.

EXCUSE ME IF I IDENTIFY HOW MUCH A PART OF THE PROBLEM YOU TRULY, TRULY ARE.

Cuz I got time today.

How are you going to tell the people protesting what the protest is about? When someone does something, don't you generally ask THEM why they did it so you know for sure? That's how you remain willfully ignorant by taking the version from the people NOT PROTESTING, FOOL!

I got time today.

Megyn Kelly is getting paid $15 million a year by NBC supposedly after she just had a new show canceled because of ratings. How in the shit does that mediocre race-baiting nitwit keep being a viable investment??????????? NBC better be glad they have "This Is Us" on their network or I'd never watch NUTTIN on their network again. NEVER.AGAIN!

I got time today.

The fire chief who wants the dude in our White House to post snipers and kill the protestors against inequality and continued racism in the United States?????? DUDE REALLY? I'm so glad your evil azz got fired I might grill today just so I can start a fire in honor of your pink slip.

I got time today.

Sprinkles Cupcake company getting hate mail because they support American's right to protest? DO THEY PROCESS ONLINE ORDERS? ANY GLUTEN-FREE CUPCAKES? CAN I PAY FOR A DOZEN OVER THE PHONE AND HAVE A FRIEND PICK THEM UP?

I got time today.

Kristie Kibbey Etue's post calling us anti-American degenerates from her powerful position as the director of Michigan's po-pos? Oh really? That's how you use your voice when you are supposed to be in charge of protecting and serving? I hope they are calling for your resignation RAT.NAH! I hope they are lined up outside of your office with signs chanting, "HELL NO! YOU MUST GO!"

I got time today.

Jerry Jones straight up making it all about him letting ya boy know he can't tell him what to do with his fresh facial, lineup and blue suit?

NO.JUST.NO.

That was so disrespectful to his players. I bet they feel like crap being used like that. Seriously.

I got time today.

Look...Imma say this. Don't let this situation get you fired but if someone rolls up on you inappropriately at work, correct them calmly and then head to the HR department and let them know you feel threatened by being approached at work. If your "friend" contacts you in private, talk to them and let them know how you feel. Make sure you also let them know how their public silence makes you feel too. If your neighbor stops speaking, screw 'em. If someone threatening says some ish to you in public, gauge your response properly. Don't get hurt, don't initiate any hurting but if a mofo act like they crazy...

LET 'EM KNOW YOU GOT TIME TODAY.

A little bit of Martin...a whole lot of Malcolm.

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Holiday Menu Spreadsheet Download

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This is the spreadsheet I use every holiday meal to get ready. I work on it a little at a time starting as soon as a cool breeze hit and I'm in a holiday mood. You can download this to help you too. It is a lifesaver when it comes to shopping!

Add sheets along the bottom with your recipes so you have everything where you need it to be and just prop up the iPad in the kitchen with "The Color Purple" on in the background and get your cooking on!

HOLIDAY MENU SPREADSHEET

(You happy, Kristen?)

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The Eating Holidays are Coming!!!!

It's that time of year again when I want to completely redo everything to get ready for the holidays. I just get into the thought process that people are coming so I need to be ready. LOL! Not like people aren't always visiting year 'round mind you. Year 'round is okay for what it looks like...but when them SAME people come for the holidays it has to be mo'betta. Don't ask for a rationale behind this way of thinking because there is none. Seriously. None.

But I know you probably feel me and are looking around your dining room to see what you need to do too. LOL! Cuz that's how we roll.

This starts with me bringing home this piece. It was soooooooo heavy and we just loaded that sucker up any way we could. Just slid it all cross the back of the truck. We got it home and maneuvered it to the garage where it stayed while I worked on it. It was a challenge because whenever I needed to move it, I couldn't without The Robinator and his schedule made that hard to be consistent. But I finally finished it.

I stripped the top layer of the finish off and then lightly sanded it. Then I put two coats of Minwax weathered grey stain on the top of it. For the base, I painted it with Dixie Belle's Haint Blue. It's the loveliest neutral color with just the tiniest bit of blue in it. So much so that you only see it as blue in perfect lighting conditions. LOL! I'm talking blinds closed and ceiling light on. Any other times it looks white.

Because I'm going for a rustic farmhouse look in there, I distressed it lightly. I only did that after we decided to keep it because it was too heavy to take it to my shop. I mean...this thing is crazy heavy and we're just not built for moving stuff that can't get scratched up. We're more of the college students you find on Craigslist kinda movers where we just pray for the best and get the worst possible outcome. Who knew I needed so much additional storage though? I certainly didn't and now, I have much more. I have a whole drawer dedicated to linen napkins so I'm not scrambling looking for 8 that match and end up having to use two sets of 4. *sigh* And who knew I had enough small placecard holders and napkin rings to fill an entire drawer? Not me that's for sure! But I do. LOL! So yeah...next thing is to find a rug I can live with, get some cushions made for those two barrel back chairs and some kinda window treatments which don't make the room feel stuffy and I'll be ready for the eating holidays!

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Kiva.org and Christopher

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Yall remember Kiva? Well, I have had the same lil piece of money in Kiva for years now. Maybe like almost 10 years. I just keep turning it around and giving it to someone else. In all these years I don't believe I've ever received an update from the person I loaned the money to. Maybe it's a new thing they are doing but getting this update from the latest person I loaned my lil piece of money to brought me joy this morning.

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Christopher looks like he services each customer with a smile and probably gives you an extra scoop if you smile back. LOL! I'm looking forward to seeing how far he takes his family business.

You can check his business out on his Facebook page: Rhythm & Thyme

if you're interested in starting to help out small businesses with microloans, try Kiva out. I've been doing it for years and it makes me feel good knowing I've helped out someone with a dream that the banks don't believe in.

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What I'm Not Gon' Do #TakeTheKnee

Remember these riding horses that used to be outside the grocery stores? Remember begging your mother for a dime or a quarter so you could be entertained by riding a horsey for a few minutes? I do. It was the life. For a few minutes, I was entertained and imagined I was riding in the great Wild West with a big badge on my chest looking for outlaws.

Hey...I read a lot as a kid. I had an awesome imagination and my dad had stacks and stacks of Louis L'amore westerns.

Yesterday, across the country, and across the pond, NFL athletes used their American right to protest peacefully against injustice and continued racism in the United States of America. One of the players was someone near and dear to me and my chest swelled with pride as he knelt knowing his kneeling was taking a stand for those who sometimes feel they don't have a voice to help them. On his Facebook page the comments came rolling in and it was indeed a sight to see the same people who'd love him at the start of the game now all with the same mantra of basically...since he's a multi-millionaire who plays football, he needs to stand for the anthem and shut up or be fired. AND HE NEEDS TO DO WHAT THEY SAY NOW, RIGHT NOW.

Oh.

I looked up other players who'd participated in the peaceful protest against injustice and continued racism in the United States of America and the same rhetoric was there for all the world to see. Like...these people took the masks off. The players were called ignorant n-words, monkeys who play a child's game, uneducated gorillas who don't deserve to live in this country, etc. They equated their peaceful protest against injustice and continued racism in the United States of America to these players disrespecting fallen soldiers who died for their right to protest peacefully.

Oh.

These people made their peaceful protest against injustice and continued racism in the United States of America about what THEY wanted to make it about with an arrogance disregarding the truth that is astonishing in how fast it spread. Like wildfire.

Just burned through all in its path.

All of this was par for course until I noticed a comment from someone I knew on his page. Two comments from the same person. I sat back and processed it. Then I took a screengrab and sent it to her via messenger. I let her know how surprising it was to see her comments and even more surprising that she felt it was something she couldn't discuss with me directly since her comments showed she was wrong about what the protest was about.

So apparently, the peaceful protest against injustice and continued racism in the United States of America has "taken away football" for many Americans because a player needs to just shut up and play football. They think the players are like that horse. Like they aren't even human. They drop in a coin and get entertained and when the players aren't entertaining them, they should just sit still and say nothing until the button is depressed again that allows them to get to entertaining. Like they don't have family and friends who aren't dealing with injustice and unfairness daily. Like they aren't educated. Like they aren't working in their communities attempting to affect change with programs, their voice, events, etc.

Like they are inanimate objects without feeling no matter the size of their bank accounts.

The opposite of a peaceful protest is civil war right? I mean...do these people want folks to get their Boston Tea Party on again? Should we start dropping our tax dollars into the middle of the ocean or something instead of paying our taxes? What do you suggest be done? And who do you think you are even thinking that you should be able to tell someone that their time and place is not the right time or place?

I mean really.

So...the person I knew doubled down and I said what I had to say and then told her goodbye. And I meant that. Cuz what you NOT gon' do is disrespect someone near and dear to me for exercising their rights as an American.

And...

WHAT I'M NOT GON' DO is let you think, for a second, that our country doesn't have some serious work to do in areas of race.

WHAT I'M NOT GON' DO is let you think you can skin and grin in my face while you are supporting a man who called violent Nazi protesters, in 2017, very fine people but peacefully protesting men, sons of bitches.

WHAT I'M NOT GON' DO is let you railroad a movement by swearing you know what it's "really" about when it has been spelled out for you what it is actually about time and time again. You don't want equality for all because it makes you feel oppressed.

Oh.

Let the peaceful protests continue. As Americans. It is their right.

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Mommy Wars - The Ultimate Better Thans

“She woke up at 5am and made enough coffee for two cups. She removed the breakfast dishes from the table that she hadn’t had an opportunity to remove the day before. The instant grits dried almost as hard as concrete on the plastic bowl. She picked up her 6 year old son’s toys scattered around the room and put them in the basket she kept by the sofa. Next she folded the sofa blanket and straightened up as much as possible.

When her coffee was ready, she made a cup and took that first grateful sip, walking into the bathroom to start a bath for herself as quietly as possible so as to not wake her son.

Twenty minutes later, she woke her son, got him dressed for school, fed him breakfast and rushed out the door to drop him off to school and then go to her first job.

From 8 - 5, she worked for the state filing papers all day for petty lawsuits. Her son catches the bus to her parent’s house. His math tutor shows up and works with him for an hour a day on Monday and Wednesday and his reading tutor on Tuesday and Thursday. Her parents are on a fixed income so she makes sure there is enough food in the house for all of them to eat during the week. To afford all of this, she has a second job at the dollar store from 6pm to midnight.

At midnight, exhausted, she drives to her parent’s to pick up her son and she carries him to her car kissing his little neck and cheek softly so as not to wake him. She puts a sweater over him in the cool night air and drives home. At the last minute, right before her turn to go home, she remembers they are out of milk and decides to run in and pick up a gallon and a couple of apples. She briefly debates removing her son from the car and considers letting him sleep with the doors locked, but she didn’t want him to get overheated since she’d recently watched a show about how quickly it gets hot in a car even during mild temperatures.

She only needed milk and eggs so she wouldn’t be in there longer than 10 minutes and she could see the car from inside the store so she left the car running with the air on and rushed in to get the milk and apples because her day started over again at 5am after having only 3 hours of sleep.”

That was fiction.

The real story is one where a single mother left her child in a running car at 1:15am to run into the grocery store and she returned to find her car, and her child, missing. The car was found 15 miles away from the store with her son inside dead. A bullet through the brain.

In the hours which followed her finding her car and child missing, back-to-back Amber alerts went out far and wide. These Amber alerts woke us up in the middle of the night. We read them, put our phones back on our nightstands and went back to sleep.

The mother did not go to sleep. She waited for news of her child, terrified. Hoping for the best but terrified of the worst. A parent's worst nightmare playing out. Not knowing where her child was, who had him, was he safe, what were they doing to him.

By the time we were eating breakfast, the news of his murder broke and all our collective hearts broke for that baby and his lost life.

By the time we were all reading the news reports online, the undercurrent of hateful rumors had started. Speculation about why the mother was out that late started. Stories of how the mother was in the club partying while the child was in the car. Theories of how the child found a gun in the car while outside of the club and accidentally killed himself. Rumors that the mother was inside the store for over an hour waiting for the car to be fake stolen. Adamant statements of the mother contacting the murderers and setting up a fake kidnapping so she wouldn't be charged with her child's murder. And...the most startling of all...DEMANDS, IMMEDIATELY, FOR THE ARREST OF THE MOTHER FOR CHILD NEGLECT FOR LEAVING THE CHILD IN THE CAR.

Whenever I saw one of these statements and comments online I noted that the most vocal of them all were single mothers and, quite frankly, it came across with such an air of the "better-thans" that it was sickening. "Look at me! I'm better than her! My child is still alive!"

Smug, nauseatingly so.

"I'd never..."

"What kind of mother..."

After a mother lost her child in the blink of an eye. Her baby in that car terrified, or maybe the baby didn't even wake up. Just sleep and then dead. A bullet to his lil developing brain. Dead.

Why was it so quick that the potential story surrounding the child being in the car at that time of night be so ugly instead of the fictional story above? Why was it so easy for so many people to jump on the bandwagon of straight damning this poor mother immediately after her child had been murdered? Sure...she made a life altering decision to leave him in the car...but that woman didn't want her child to die. SHE LOST HER CHILD!

I saw pictures of this mother being carried by family members after she collapsed upon hearing the news of her child's murder.

I saw pictures of her grief-stricken family, horrified. I read the story in the Clarion-Ledger and got so upset I had to walk away from the computer. I had to walk away from all the perfect mothers who "would never..."

Turns out Ms. Archie, Kingston's mother, was in the store for 10 - 15 minutes buying medicine.

Turns out the child was murdered after the car was stolen by, in another tragic twist to this horrible crime, 17 and 18-year-olds.

Turns out Kingston was murdered by at least one of the children who stole the car at 1:15am.

Turns out all those rumors were mean-spirited and evil. Judge and jury in the midst of a mother's grief.

Turns out...people will do the most to be "better-than" someone...even during the most heinous of times.

As you can tell...this shit has sat on me hard. *sigh*

I know enough single mothers to know the shit is hard as fug. I listen to how exhausted they are getting it all done. I sit back and watch them do every single thing they can do to make sure their child/children have the best life possible. Because I actually KNOW and interact with single mothers...I can empathize with this poor mother even though I'm not a mother myself.

You'd think that other single mothers would have been able to empathize with her even easier than I did.

But the ones spreading the rumors and calling for her to be charged chose the low road.

How dare you add to this woman's grief in such an ugly, ugly way. How dare your narrative be so without compassion for another mother. How dare you.

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"Compound" - Completed Book Available on Amazon!!!!!

Compound follows five strangers as they are each given a deed to a luxury beach home, a title to a new car and a cashier’s check for one million dollars with promises of more to come.Golden hasn’t had the best life, yet is as loving and trusting as … — Compound follows five strangers as they are each given a deed to a luxury beach home, a title to a new car and a cashier’s check for one million dollars with promises of more to come.

Golden hasn’t had the best life, yet is as loving and trusting as a puppy. She’s unemployed and tanking financially while waiting for her fiancé to return and help save her family home from foreclosure, marry her and start a family. When she’s contacted by the lawyer representing an anonymous benefactor, she attributes the windfall to the grace of God. When the lawyer also informs her that her fiancé is living with another woman and has a baby on the way, the blow knocks her sideways.

Golden warms up slowly to her neighbors at The Pointe, the luxury beach community where her new vacation home is located. They start working out together, sharing intimate secrets, having regular dinners and forming close bonds that celebrate each other and their differences. The enjoyment of their beach summer is rocked by one explosive, climactic event leaving someone dead, many confused and all conflicted once they discover the reason they have been brought together.

We’ve all been hurt a multitude of times and most things too good to be true generally are, but what if they are given in secret to right past wrongs? What if the worst of your life was evaluated and payment was made to soften all those blows? But payment from whom? For what ills? And what consequences does accepting payment bring?

So, the book, "Compound," that's been in my brain for so long is now complete and available on Amazon! I hope you read it and enjoy it! I've been getting some great feedback from readers and it makes me laugh knowing how much they are connecting to the characters. LOL! I'm like...BE NICE TO GOLDEN, SHE'S BEEN THROUGH A LOT!!!! LOLOLOLOL!

If you read it, please give it a review! Oh...and yes...part two is in the making! WHOOOOOHOOOOO!

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SHADE - Pilot

So...a lot has been going on and I'm happy to report that Team Sizzle has completed shooting a pilot titled, "Shade." If you'd like to follow along with the process, follow us on Facebook and Instagram for details. Such an exciting project with an extremely talented cast! Looking forward to sharing it with you guys as soon as possible!

Facebook: Shade.TS

Instagram: Shade.TS

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DIY Rustic 6ft. Pipe Shelf

Our sofa isn't against the wall and there is a pretty good bit of space between the sofa and the wall so I decided I wanted to put a 6ft. long shelf back there under the mirror I have there currently. (Totally plan on replacing the mirror soon for something much larger.) I'd posted a pin to Pinterest a long time ago showing a shelf made out of pipe flanges and pipes with wood and finally decided to make one.

So...off to Lowes I go to buy two pipe flanges (1/2"), two 10" pipe nipples (1/2"), two pipe end caps (1/2") and an 8ft. long 2" x 10" board that I had them cut 6ft. off.

When I got home, I sanded the board and stained it with Minwax Dark Walnut stain. Robby installed the pipe flanges on the wall using sheetrock anchors and the shelf fit perfectly between the flange and the end cap. I used a sharpie to color in the head of the screws so it blended with the flanges better.

I'm only using it for decorative purposes so I wasn't really worried about it being knocked off the pipes. If this is a concern of yours, ask Mr. Google for solutions as there are plenty.

I like it and I'm going to make a wall of them soon, shorter ones though. Probably three of them about 3ft. each.

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DIY Blanket / Throw Ladder Pottery Barn Inspired

You, like me, probably have a blanket tossed across the back of your sofa or folded over an arm. I was in Waco, TX at Chip and Joanna Gaines' store and my friend was looking for a blanket ladder. When I saw the one she was buying, it was cute, but I was honestly thinking to myself...I could make something like that.

So I did.

And you can too! Promises.

I went to Lowe's and bought two 8ft. long 2" x 2" for $1.98 each and had them cut 5ft. off each one and then cut the remaining pieces in half. This way, you will leave with two 5ft. pieces and four 18" pieces.

Then...you get a box of self-boring wood screws, some sand paper and wood stain in the color you want.

So...I got home and laid out my pieces. I wanted to be able to use the last rung so I made the measuring points begin at 6" and then every 12" after that so that there was 18" clearance at the bottom.

I used a bit of wood glue on the joints because I wanted to make sure they didn't move.

Once you get it all put together, sand it as smooth as possible and then stain apply the stain you chose. I did some in Minwax Dark Walnut and some in Minwax Golden Oak. Seems everyone in my family wanted one once they saw mine. *sigh* I put felt pads at the top of the back of them so they don't scratch the walls.

I'm thinking about making one for the guest bathroom to put over the toilet to use for towels. If I do that, I'll seal it with a waterproof clearcoat.

Cool right?

I'll tell you what else was cool. When I saw how much these cost on the Pottery Barn website knowing how much it cost me to make my own! Pottery Barn Blanket Ladder

Me make stuff. You can make stuff too! GO YOU!

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Holiday Season 2016

This holiday season was so epically satisfying. Except for the bronchitis...it was perfect. Kids, family, framily, friends, good eating, amazing gift giving and receiving, hugs, kisses, games, dancing, laughter, giggles and just being so super comfortable in your own skin.

Our nephew goes to a charter school and had more days off than normal public schools and, with working parents, daycare can be a challenge so he spent the two weeks before Christmas with us. We had an absolute blast with him keeping Santa front and center.

We hosted Christmas dinner and had a holiday party the day after, which was a lot of fun playing games and just catching up with everyone.

After Christmas, we headed to Houston to bring in the New Year with family and checked out Chip and Joanna Gaines' Magnolia Silos in Waco, Texas too! A good time was had by all.

The house was deep cleaned before we traveled for New Years and when we returned it was great walking into a perfectly ordered home.

And now...we rest and regroup. Make plans, go over financial goals for this year and focus on being ready for any eventuality this year may bring.

I hope it's the same for you. Just be better cuz if I know you...you were already good cuz I only know GOOD people. If all these GOOD people focus on being better? MAN...that will spread far and wide. BE.BETTER!

Happy New Year from The Robinator and I. We hope to see as many of you as possible in 2017 so we can hug your neck and remind you that we're in your tribe. Count on us for what you need from us be it support, encouragement, or just a good time chilling, relaxing and laughing.

LOVE YOU!!!!!!

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Happy New Year

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Excellent Book: "The Nix"

I'm in the middle of this book, "The Nix," and I have absolutely no idea where the author is taking me but honestly...it doesn't matter at this point because I am enjoying the ride. I can't tell you the last time that's happened, that I didn't know what was going to happen even a little bit. Like...I have even stopped guessing at this point. I'm just here for wherever he takes me.

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My FAVORITE Uncle Got Married!

My uncle, my daddy's baby brother, is one of the men I always thought of when thinking of the qualities I wanted in a husband and he recently got remarried again. It was a lovely event and I'm so, so, so very happy for him. I hope, wish and pray that he and his new bride have the most amazingly happy life for the rest of their life together.

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My Christmas Frenchie Loves!

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Black Santa

This is my oldest bit of holiday decor. I recently fixed the scratches and many of the missing pieces and put him out as I do every.single.Christmas. There was such an uproar about Santa being Black in the mall recently that it made me scratch my head. Santa isn't real so um...Santa can be whatever skin color we want him to be. Santa has always been Black to me as he has always been representative of our family. No biggie right? Right. Christmas is inclusive so make it as personal as possible. All that good magic just floating around? Put it to your own family magical use.

Too many people out here showing their azz for no reason. Don't be an azz showing dummy.

And be happy.

Shit.

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Deep Conditioning and Shopping!

Under this hat is hair deep conditioning under a plastic conditioning cap.

While I shop.

What? I'M STILL CUTE!!!!!!!!! LOL!

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Giant Outdoor Wreath

I wanted a gigantic wreath to put on the window in the middle of the top floor but Robby wouldn't let me be great. He decided that since our ladder didn't reach that far safely...I could only put it where I could reach with him holding the ladder. For some odd reason, he had a problem with me climbing off the tippy top of the ladder over the rail with a gigantic wreath and, since I couldn't hold the ladder while he climbed off the tippy top of the ladder over the rail with a gigantic wreath...well...you see how this ended.

Humph.

N.E.WAY.

I got a gigantic faux wreath, linked together sets of 3 unbreakable ornaments using green ornament hooks. Added an outdoor bow and attached it NOT on the FABULOUS window where it would be perfect...but under it. Safely.

HUMPH.

Me likey. And it didn't cost a lot to make. Which makes me likey it even moreso. If only it was on the window...*sigh*

HOW IS YOUR DECORATING COMING?

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Travertine Tile Coaster Fun!

Bought these travertine 4 x 4 tiles from Home Depot for $4 per pack of 9. Having big fun with them making coasters for family, framily and friends!!!!!

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